The easy solution: stop judging yourself. When you’re able to truly stop judging yourself it opens you up to more possibilities. It opens you up to better relationships. It opens others up to feel safer and freer with you because they don’t feel judged. It makes your life fuller, more joyful, in general happier.
First Love = Self Love
It is rewarding to find someone you like, but it is essential to like yourself. It is quickening to recognize that someone is a good and decent human being, but it is indispensable to view yourself as acceptable. It is a delight to discover people who are worthy of respect and admiration and love, but it is vital to believe yourself deserving of these things. ~Jo Coudert
The Bad Kitty is NOT Impressed!
Did you hear about this? A French dietician has suggested that the school system give kids better final marks for being their “ideal weight”.
Anyone else just go “WHAAAAAAATTT??????”
Change How You See
What it boils down to is being willing to see the good rather than what we may deem inadequate. Change how you see, not how you look. This applies to who you are as much as it does to how you look. Rather than beating yourself up for what’s not working, for what you have challenges with; celebrate what you can do, what you’re great at, the successes you’ve had and how far you’ve come on your journey.