Bieste is a good friend, a supportive mentor and a real person. I love her because I get her. I may not be a beefy woman in a man’s profession, but I still get the feelings of being unattractive and unwanted by the opposite sex. When I had my first boyfriend at 19 I made a very bad choice and almost married that bad choice as I thought I would never find anything better. Thank goodness I came to enough of my senses to know even if I didn’t find anyone else, I would be less miserable than I would be with him.